Loss of affection
WHY HAS AFFECTION DISAPPEARED?
- You find out that the person you loved wasn’t what you thought they were
- Your loved one has let you down so badly you just can’t feel any warmth towards them•You carry wounds to do with neglect and rejection – you may have overcome these to some extent during the ‘in love’ phase, but now the relationship is established you’ve switched off
- You’re going through depression, and can’t feel anything
- You’ve lost your self-esteem and therefore have nothing to give anyone else
- You’ve fallen in love with someone else and all your emotional energy is going towards them
- There has been violence or cruelty in the relationship
If your lover has stopped loving you, don’t try to struggle on alone. Pretending to the world that everything is all right won’t make it so, and certainly won’t help you. Talk to trusted friends or consider having therapy to talk through deeper issues, remember that our helpful, understanding readers are always ready with insight and healing messages, so put in a call sooner rather than later.
SELF-ESTEEM IS KEY
Loss of self-esteem can, in itself, lead to loss of affection. Unless you feel good about yourself you can’t ever have anything worthwhile to give another person. Self-esteem issues are crucial in any relationship, so take a look at yours.
If your partner has stopped being affectionate to you, there’s no point begging or arguing. Your task now is to re-build your self-esteem, because only through this can you hope either to regain their affection, or to move on.
When you’ve had a loving partnership, leaving this and moving on can feel devastating however, there isn’t anything to be gained by trying to reignite something that’s died. Tell yourself that even though it seems difficult now, one day it will most certainly be easier. You will survive, and you will be stronger.
HOW WE CAN HELP
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